When it comes to reaching orgasm, most women need more than plain old penetration.

Your penis is great and all, but only a quarter of women routinely come during vaginal intercourse which means a lot of ladies need some clitoral stimulation in order to climax. So what can you do to give her a mind-blowing clitoral orgasm? Well, for starters, make sure you know where the clitoris is: at the top of the vulva, just under the spot where the inner labia meet. Because the clit is so sensitive, 67% of women prefer stimulation in or around the clitoris, not directly on it. If you’re not sure what she prefers, remember this universal piece of advice: ask her!

Surprise your partner tonight with one or all of these clitoral stimulation tricks, using not just your tongue, but also your lips, fingers, and toys.

Suck and Nibble

Things You Should Be Doing To the Clitoris!

Instead of just licking her, use your lips and tongue to suck on her clit.
The entire vulva consists of sensitive nerve fibers, So being able to suck on the glans or the head of the clit and lightly nibble on her inner and outer labia, or suck a little on labia, will stimulate the nerve fibers. The sucking will also lead to increased vasocongestion, or more blood flow, to the vulva and the clitoris — “like a little vacuum pump,”.

Draw circles

When researchers from Indiana University surveyed 1,055 women about their favorite sex techniques, 3 out of 4 women said they love it when you trace little circles on or around her clit.You can use your tongue, your finger, or two fingers — or all of the above.

Hinting

While you’re drawing those circles, try “hinting” focusing on the area near her clitoris, and only occasionally coming in for direct touch. 7 out of 10 women said they were into this technique. Use one finger flicking all around the clitoris, but not directly on it, To bring your partner to orgasm, once she is at the height of pleasure, you’ll want to maintain a steady consistent stroke.

Pick a Side

Things You Should Be Doing To the Clitoris!

When it comes to clitoral stimulation, 4 out of 10 women have a preferred side, the same survey found. Ask her if there’s a side she likes better — and if she’s not sure, experiment on both.

Use your imagination.

Things You Should Be Doing To the Clitoris!

When you’re flicking your tongue over her clitoris, imagine you are painting a fence from top to bottom, alternating between up and down. Next, go into the windshield wiper move of using your tongue to go side-to-side.

Don’t Forget the Shaft

While a lot of attention is spent on the tip of the clitoris the part located at the top of the vulva it also has two “legs” that extend up to five inches inside the body, known as the “shaft.” Slide your fingers to either side of her clitoral shaft. Pull and push the clitoral hood across the clitoris and move in circles, diagonals, and spontaneous un-choreographed fashions so as to stay unpredictable.

Play the Harmonica

Once your partner is in the midst of an orgasm, add some oral vibration to her experience. Make your lips into an O and take her clitoris in your mouth, Cadell suggests. Then make humming sounds as you suck on her clit, as if you are playing harmonica, so that she can feel the warm, wet vibrations.

Bring on the Waterworks

Things You Should Be Doing To the Clitoris!

We’re not talking about vaginal ejaculation or golden showers here. Water play is one of the first methods many women use to get off when they start masturbating at an early age in the privacy of their bath time. Water play is important, When using a handheld shower head, let the water spray over her body in between her legs, then move it closer to her clitoris, moving the water stream back and forth.

The Penis Massage

If you’re hard, try using your erect penis to rub up against her clit. This is good if you are laying side-by-side facing each other or even on your knees above her, holding the tip of your penis in your hand to massage and rub her clit, She can also grab your penis and use it like she would a sex toy on her clit.