Masturbate in Front of Mirrors Learn About Your Body
Masturbate in Front of a Mirror
Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all? You are, of course!
For many, the female genitalia remain a mystery. It’s not just men who don’t fully understand the inner workings of a woman’s sexual center. Many women also don’t quite know what’s under the hood! Ladies, let’s face it, how can you unleash your full sexual potential if you don’t understand the ultimate source of your arousal?
To masturbate in front of a mirror can seem scary, even perverse or odd, but it’s a perfectly natural way to embrace your sexuality. It is a reliable means of getting a firsthand view of your own sexual anatomy. If you feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, that’s all the more reason to do it. Giving yourself a little push in the direction of taking responsibility for your own pleasure is a good thing. Every woman can benefit from a sense of connection to her genitals!
Every Vulva Is Beautiful
First, toss aside any preconceived notions about what your vulva should look like. Just as wrinkles can be Photoshopped out of pictures in magazines, often the images of naked women (in pornography, for instance) have airbrushed vulvas. Make the connection to your vulva, and understand like other areas of the body, this part of female anatomy comes in all shapes, sizes, and colors.
You Won’t Break It!
Delicate yet tough, intricate yet complex, the female genitalia can handle a whole lot. Just think about childbirth! So, if there are any worries that masturbation might lead you to hurt yourself by doing something wrong, banish those thoughts. As a matter of fact, banish any and all self-defeating thoughts that might be running through your head. Trust me — learning how to do this is a good thing and will change the way you masturbate for ever.
Getting Over the Awkwardness
Of course, some women find it less than inspiring to sit in front of a mirror while trying to masturbate. If you’re feeling awkward, give yourself some time to get comfortable with this new experience. I promise it will be worth it. It might help to dim the lights and turn on some music to set the mood. Wait for a time when you are absolutely sure no one is home, so you will be free from distractions or disruptions. The main thing is to make sure you are comfortable, then let yourself get into it by focusing on what feels good. Don’t try for an orgasm — just relax and explore different kinds of touching.
Notice the Amazing Changes
Take a moment every now and again to observe the changes in your anatomy and the escalation of your arousal as you start to masturbate. All the different parts you see when you look into a mirror come together to create your vulva. The vulva is made up of the clitoris, outer labia, inner labia, vestibule, and vaginal opening. Each of these parts will offer you different and most-likely pleasurable sensations when stimulated. The entire genital area darkens and swells with arousal. Notice how the clitoris becomes larger and stiffer the more you become aroused. Lubrication increases. Also, the vagina expands internally — which is why penetration is often craved.
Eventually, you’ll get a sense of what makes you tick, which helps you get more out of partner sex and makes you the agent of your own pleasure, no matter what your situation. Remember, mirrors don’t lie — the source of your sexuality is a beautiful thing!
