Are about to be dumped? Here are the tell tale signs.
Relationships are most of the time easy and comfortable and then sometimes we tend to take this pretty far. We become absorbed, so we miss out on signs that things aren’t as they were before. And when a relationship begins to stagnate, that’s when we need to introspect and see what’s gone wrong. Are you about to be dumped?
So here are some pointers or signs that your partner is unhappy in the relationship. If your partner is exhibiting any of the signs below, it’s time to worry the words “you are dumped” may not be too far away!
Does spending all their time online mean you are dumped?
We all think Facebook is fun, and all those pics on Instagram keeps you on your toes, the latest trends but if either you or your partner is spending more time online than with each other, it’s time to sit up and take notice. It might be them wanting some space, but having a chat about it might be better than being dumped.
Not being interested in socializing
Most of the time, it’s ok to simply lay in your PJs or in my case naked 🙂 and not go out, but if your partner insists on staying in every night, even weekends, surely something’s not all right.
So many fights
I have been in relationships with lots of fighting and this is exhausting for everyone concerned. Your partner picks fights over everything, from breakfast choices to movie nights. You begin fighting over everything, from the way you dress to the way you eat your food everything irritates them. You fight back. Then begins a period where you don’t talk to each other. This stretches on, if it goes on longer than usual, well, you know what that means!
The bedroom fun isn’t there
Heres the flashing light a blaring red signal, like a warning sign you’ve now entered the irradiated zone. If things in the bedroom have become placid and boring and maybe even non-existent, you need to have a talk with your partner and see what’s wrong.
Living in the past
So its a good point to say the past was good but it should remain there. There is no point dredging it up every now and then, especially if you were not an important part of your partner’s past. If your other half is wishing for the good old times when they were single maybe, that’s a big sign.
Just leave me alone
No conversations, no going out, no sex and also wants to be left alone can only point at one thing, your partner is unhappy in the relationship. So what are you going to do about it?
Now you are all worried now and you’ve taken a breath from reading this. Now its time to do one thing, communicate. Even if your partner is unwilling to listen, communicate to them that you’re aware something is amiss. And that you’ll work it out together. Because, remember, all relationships need work.