Cunninglingus 101 the stuff school doesnt teach!
For me Cunninglingus is an amazing feeling not only for the person receiving but also for me lay down on the floor doing the licking! in this post we will talk about some of the good ways to make the whole thing a whole lot better!!
Step One – Eye contact and more…
The sweet cunninglingus. How I love it! After kissing I take her hands, place them above her head a little forcefully and start kissing her neck… Then, I take off any top she had on, leaving on her bra… I then kiss along her collarbone and shoulders and kiss the exposed flesh above her bra… How I give her deep eye contact, eyes are the window to the soul – so I make sure to peer into her soul before I do all this. Then kiss her passionately on the lips whilst taking off her bra… Then go down to her beautiful breasts, cup them, kiss them, flick your tongue over her nipples and if you feel like biting them, bite very LIGHTLY… Continue sucking and licking her nipples for a few more seconds…
Step Two – Kiss down her body & make her feel comfortable
Her body is her femininity, I am sure to make her comfortable in her own skin. So I will begin to kiss slowly down her body… along her waistline, and with one hand I pull her trousers down ever so slightly and run my tongue along where her waistline was. Now I would take off her jeans… Keeping her underwear on for now… let her get comfortable I now kiss along the V where her underwear meet her thighs and guess whereabouts her clit is make an O shape with your mouth, place it over that area and give one hot breath over her underwear.
Step Three – Tease her
I now tease her a little, kissing away from her pussy… down her legs and making my way back up again, I do this down both legs, making sure you I touch her divine pussy. A lot of women tend to feel a bit exposed if you take her jeans off straight away so when you finishing kissing up her thighs, move her panties slightly to the side and kiss around her pussy but not going for the prize just yet.
Step Four – Lick up her pussy to find divinity
When I feel her starting to arch her back, (I know she is getting a little restless for me), with one strong tongue stroke lick, I lick from her vagina opening (NOT HER ASSHOLE!) upwards. When I feel a slight bump, just above the opening, (about the size of a pea) I know that’s her clitoris, and I don’t let go of it. If you’re having some trouble finding it run a finger down her pussy and see if you can feel it if she’s horny you should have no trouble.
Step Five – Slow it down or speed it up to find the stroke
Once I find her clit, I start with slow, harder strokes and speed it up gradually. If you find she’s moving herself so your tongue is touching a different area that may mean you aren’t on the clit. If all else fails, don’t be embarrassed ask if it’s the right spot, she’ll show you where to be! I increase your speed with my tongue; think vibrator, but I listen to her body, paying attention. If she grinding faster and into me that means press I must press my tongue harder on her clit and flick faster. If she is slowly grinding then I slow it down a little maybe I will flick a little lighter, her clit may be sensitive.
Step Six – Tell her how great she tastes when you taste her
The biological and soul benefits of tasting her sacred place are beyond words. When she’s nice and wet, and I can tell she’s enjoying it I will always tell a girl how divine her pussy tastes…. Girls worry about this kind of stuff… Under no circumstances will I do the alphabet with my tongue! Some girls like if you twirl your tongue in circles around their clit, but in all honestly, if you’re flicking your tongue in the right spot you really don’t need loads of variation, it actually becomes quite distracting and frustrating if every time you are getting close you change what you are doing… Keep tasting that divinity.
Step Seven – Use your fingers & ask how she wants it, its all Cunninglingus
Now she’s loving my tongue, and I’m loving her… I look up into her eyes and then slide one finger slowly into her pussy. Then I get straight back to that clit, most girls come quickest from combined clit stimulation and putting your finger/fingers (depending how wet she is) inside her. I make a come hither motion with my fingers on her vagina wall and press harder or lighter depending how she is moving.
It’s actually always a good idea at this point to ask the girl how she wants it
To which she’ll reply ‘fast and hard’ or ‘more fucking’ to which you can finger fuck her harder but keep this pace up with how fast you are licking her clit. I.e. if you are fucking her fast, lick her clit fast. There’s no designated process to all this, it’s down to the girl, but this is my process. Pay attention to how she’s moving her body into you and every so often don’t be afraid to ask questions. Another tip of mine is not too much tongue; use just the end of your tongue. I find otherwise – (sorry to be so explicit) – but your saliva gets everywhere and she can feel spit dripping down her butt crack – not a great feeling!
What should we be thinking whilst we eat pussy?
You should be thinking about how much you love it and divine it is! Sometimes your mind can’t help but drift. If you can’t stay focused on her try thinking about things that turn you on to keep up sexual momentum. When you’re thinking of errands you need to run or a joke you heard earlier it shows in your oral. This is a massive turn off for the girl! Keep focused on the moment and the task in hand.
For the women reading this, how do you get what you want?
Saying things such as ‘no I don’t like that’ is the wrong way to go! If you don’t like something-don’t react or give a sexy order like ‘uh more tongue’ if they re doing something good, lots of positive affirmation ‘you’re so good at this’ or ‘that feels so good keep doing that’. The worst thing you can do is say ‘you aren’t doing it right’ so demoralizing.
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