So my approach to Domination is somewhat different don’t get me wrong I like being a Sadist but I believe in using both pleasure and pain during a session to keep a submissive constantly off balance. I like to use extreme pleasure with some orgasm control (being kept at the brink of cumming for hours) as well as the idea of forced orgasms ( forcing her to have multiple orgasm’s over and over without a break until you achieve one long continuous orgasm or black out).
Its a psychological game using alternating contradicting physical conditions, soft vs. hard, gentle vs. rough, pleasure vs. pain, Not being allowed to cum vs. being forced to cum repeatedly to keep a her constantly off-balance and scrambling to gain her senses about what I may do next. I want to hear her beg to be allowed to cum while being kept at the brink of ecstasy after being denied orgasms repeatedly and becoming all bratty, then I want to hear her beg for mercy as I force her to keep cumming.
Overwhelming the Brain
Now I have learnt from practice that the brain can cope with too much pain by releasing of endorphins into the blood however, there is no equivalent coping mechanism for the body to cope with too much pleasure. This makes this type of play incredibly powerful.
Orgasms will arouse the entire nervous system like a xmas tree lit up. The slightest stimulation is highly amplified after an orgasm. A light flogging or paddling feels much more intense after several orgasms. Even a simple running of a finger along an arm can be so cruel, I would go for a toe sucking or even a blade or claw along the bottom of the foot. Meaning you can create a much more intense physical and psychological experience for a sub AFTER she has had several orgasms without requiring the same level of physical force or risk of injury. What works well is force your sub to cum repeatedly then alternating floggings with more forced orgasms. This intense pleasure and then intense pain takes a sub on a wild emotional and physical journey.
The key is starting with the orgasms, and then add the pain component.
Capturing The Whole
There is no faster way to fully capture there body, mind and soul than forcing them to cum 10+ times or making her squirt repeatedly until she is shaking uncontrollably with orgasmic pleasure during an early training session. It instantly strips away all her inhibitions, fears and exposes her emotionally naked at the very core of her being.
She will be permanently sexually and mentally enslaved by her extreme sexual and physical high that she has never come close to experiencing before. Unlike training with intense pain, she won’t simply endure it she will crave desire and want that sexual and physical high experience over and over.
There will never be any doubt in her mind that I OWN HER.
Notes to be careful about
As a Dom, your primary responsibility during a session is the emotional and physical safety of your sub. When using this technique, you can easily make a woman black out. I strongly recommend you NEVER go that far because it can be extremely scary to have someone unconscious and unresponsive for several minutes. The progression of critical warning signs is
(1) Loss of speech
(2) Eyes rolling back into her head
(3) Loss of control over her legs/cannot stand then
(4) Blacking out / unconsciousness.
STOP immediately you notice the eyes rolling back or the legs begin to spasm uncontrollably or the submissive being unable to stand/walk.
Unending Mini Orgasms
This technique can trigger mini orgasms after the end of the session for many hours to a few days later. You will notice your partner will suddenly shiver or jump with surprise or shock. Don’t panic it will eventually stop without intervention. Be prepared to finish a session with Aftercare.