Fisting For Beginners

Ok so Fisting is just not as difficult or extreme as you think. You are here because you want to know how to fist a woman? You are not alone! As my new partner hasn’t yet been fisted and has it on there curious list I thought id get this post out there to help others who want to experience the intensity of fisting.

jon fistingFisting is the erotic act of penetrating the vagina or anus,(but that is the subject of another article entirely!) with the entire hand. Fisting is a form of large penetration that can feel highly arousing to many women. Inside the vagina, there aren’t a whole lot of nerve endings that detect subtle sensations, but there are a lot of pressure receptors. Many women love the sensation of being “filled full up” and that great internal pressure can be very stimulating.

Fisting is sometimes thought of as an extreme and brutal sex act but like all acts it doesn’t have to be! Fisting can actually be very serene and peaceful or can of course be more rough. You can learn how to fist with grace and skill so it is an intensely pleasurable act that she loves. Fisting is a bad name for this sex act, as many people have the mental image of creating a rigid fist and shoving it inside. Forget that image, and follow these three steps:

fistingStep 1: Master the fisting insertion.

One of the most essential skills to develop in learning how to fist is the art of folding your hand into a penetration-friendly shape. One or two fingers usually fit inside nicely, but when you go bigger than that you need to learn how to wedge your hand.
Start by tucking your ring and index finger on top of your middle finger — see how that creates a nice pyramid shape? Then fold in your pinky and thumb to create the most compact shape you can. You may have to stretch and massage your hand to increase flexibility so you can tuck your hand in more tightly!

Step 2: Don’t rush things.

When first learning how to fist, use lots of lube and just take it one finger at a time. Fisting requires high levels of arousal, so warm her up with oral sex, clitoral stimulation and external anal play if she likes it. Then put her in charge of clitoral stimulation so you can focus on penetrating her. Don’t have a goal, just let her body invite you in at it’s own pace. The most intense part is getting past the knuckles at the base of the fingers. Wait for the vagina to expand and invite you in.

Step 3: Be gentle and follow her lead.

Once inside, remember that really tiny movements will create a huge amount of sensation. Wiggle your hand gently, move in small circular movements and graze your knuckles against the cervix. Notice what she responds to and follow her lead about what kind of movements she likes best.

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Jon the nudist

Jon the nudist

Well, my name is Jon the Owner of You Only Wetter a 37-year-old, Poly practicing, Dom with two great kids. I am a happy busy internet geek with a love of all things Google and I love spending time sitting on the sofa watching the latest Dr. Who, Mythbusters or a movie. I am a nudist mostly at home but do like to go down to the beach and bare all or go for a little walk around some hidden woodland really would like to do the whole nudist holiday :)

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Fisting For Beginners

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