Never Ever Make These Mistakes

Lack of Enthusiasm during BlowjobsBlowJobs

If you have no interest in blowing your man then why do it? You’re gonna say “To please him.” You’re doing no such thing if you look like you would rather have a dentist drill in your mouth. In fact this is the number one mistake of all time when it comes to blowjobs because if you can act enthusiastic most of the other issues solve themselves. You might not like giving head but if your going to do it at least pretend you’re into making it good. This little attitude change will blow his mind!

Teeth

Very few men like painful blowjobs. That being said, there are some who love their balls being smacked (I’ve seen these men, I’ve slapped their junk. They exist.) Now, almost every man you are going to go down on wants your teeth out of the way. This takes a little practice because simply opening your mouth a little wider is not a good solution. Your best option until you figure out what works for you is to cover your teeth with your lips. It looks silly but it feels so much better. You can find your own ways to make the zero tooth contact thing work. Practice away!

Teasing the Head… and ONLY the Head

Ladies, do you like oral? or even handjobs? Image you are getting one or the other and your guy just keeps doing the exact same thing over and over. It felt good to start with but it got boring fast. Men feel the same way about getting head. They need some amount of variation in depth, pressure, even how slippery you let it get. In my experience the more variation the better. If he likes something a lot, you will notice quickly and just keep doing that for a while. On this note of the head only… if your man is like most he likes for you to go as far down on him as you can. Take him all the way into your mouth. Your not going to suffocate! I’m sure you learned how to hold your breathe when you learned how to swim.

BlowjobsSucking Him Dry

I know people call it sucking him off but you’re not supposed to suck until his skin is so dry it hurts him for you to bob up and down. A lot of men out there like how much pressure comes from literally sucking as hard as you can while you move up and down but it still needs to stay wet. Saliva, saliva, and more saliva. The sloppier the better! I mean that with all seriousness. Let your saliva fall out of your mouth while you’re sucking. Don’t wipe it away or swallow it. Let it get all over him. Actually with saliva all over your lips you’ll find it much easier to move your mouth on him.

No, I Don’t Do That

Weather you said that to him in regards to going down on him at all or on his request for you to try something different it is still a humongous mistake. If you care about your guy at all and he wants you to please him like that then you should consider it. You might have preconceived issues because you’ve never done it, a previous relationship soured you on it, OR you really just don’t like your guy quite THAT much. My monogamous best friend loves blowing her man. They love each other very much and she feels like its a great way for her to show him that with physical actions. She loves to see how pleased he is by something she did. Giving a blowjob can be so much more than vulgar, and it can be empowering.

Rules to Blow By

Use your tongue. It is one of the strongest and most flexible muscles in your body. Lick everything. If he likes it, lick it twice! When your mouth is on him use your powerful tongue to add pressure to the act by squeezing your lips and tongue together.

Wet! I know I touched on this in the mistakes section but it is so important. If you’re not gonna do it super sloppy, at least make sure it stays slick enough for you to slide your mouth on and off.

Experiment. Try new things. Test out your own ideas or things you saw and never forget to try things you man would be interested in having done on him.

Communicate!!!!! Nothing gets better until the problem is out in the open. Guys, if you don’t like something she is doing then tell her. If you love something she is doing absolutely tell her. Talk before, during, or after. Do all three if you want. Ladies, listen to what he has to say. PLEASE do not freak out on him. Tell him how you feel about it. Talking to your partner honestly is a wonderful thing and can improve your sex life tenfold.

How to Figure Out How YOUR Man Likes Itblowjobs

This is one of my favorite tricks! I found a way to find out how almost any guy likes his blowjob. Watch him masturbate. Then try to mimic the things he does to himself with your mouth. Notice how much pressure he uses and which parts of himself he like to pay attention to. This is the single most amazing window into a mans preferences that I have ever found. It also helps a lot when a guy has no clue what he likes or can’t communicate well. Some guys even like that you want to watch…

Cumming in Her Mouth

Ok, Ok… I know you like it, but does she? Talk to her if this is something you are interested in and try to tell her what you like about it. From what I understand men like to come inside women. Biological instinct i guess, go figure, but hear me out… Ladies, is it gross? Does it make you feel dirty? Waste of your time? He wants to because he can’t come inside you anywhere else without worry (well there is one other place but lets tackle one sexual stigma at a time). As for your thoughts on the issue at hand try to look at it this way: he wants one of his most powerful experiences in life, his orgasm, that explosion of nerves that makes his body feel such a powerful release to be inside you. If this is a one time guy your with then I get why your not that into it but if he is YOUR man, the one you love? Then why wouldn’t you want to give him such a basic biological desire.

At The End of The Day

blowjob is gonna be as good as you want it to be. I know its hard to move past some of the stigma you might have towards it but it can be worth it. Trust your partner and let your partner trust you. I hope you all have a TON of fun after reading my post!

This post was written by Pistol Pen over from The Honest And Forbiden she’s going to be doing a few guest posts here on YouOnlyWetter head on over to her blog as well and share the love